If you have never performed oral sex, or fellatio, on your partner well here are a few good tips on learning this ancient art. Giving a "blow job" or "Going Down" on your partner is one of the most misunderstood sexual acts. In fact most premarital couples choose fellatio and cunnilingus as a substitute for intercourse. So if it is god enough for them, why can't it be introduced into the bedroom as a form of foreplay? One more thing to consider, with the threat of STD's and pregnancy on the rise, oral sex has become increasingly popular over the last decade.

So you want to learn fellatio, well let me tell you a little secret. Fellatio is so easy to learn, with a little practice, a little will, and a little want to pleasure your partner; you will be giving your partner the best oral sex of his life. Men really aren't that picky in this department. Just the thought that his significant other has the eagerness to please her man, is all he cares about. So lets get you into the learning mode, and we will go over some basics.

The most important tools for properly giving oral sex are your tongue and lips. After you have taken great care and time to your partners body, making him just want you that much more, you can now move in to the penis. Softly kiss and lick his entire penis. Don't put it in your mouth yet, don't be so eager. You wouldn't want him to go directly to the clitoris and attack it, no you would want him to kiss the outer areas of the vagina before make his move. Same applies here; make your tongue as flat as possible and slowly like the shaft like an ice cream cone. Start at the base and work your way up the shaft paying close attention to the head of the penis. This is his sensitive zone, so don't go all crazy there; just softly caress the area with your tongue.

Now gently grasp the base of the penis in your hand and take the tip of his penis and place it into your mouth. Now slowly glide the penis as far as comfortable into your mouth. You may want to practice with a vibrator or dildo before hand, to find out how much you can take without gagging. Be careful not to use your teeth at this stage, your partner may not like it. Now simply slide his penis in and out of your mouth in a rhythmic fashion, and lightly pressing your lips around his shaft. Vary the speeds, and stop every once in a while to pay attention to the head of the penis before continuing on. Know before hand, if you intend to have him ejaculate in your mouth, or on something else. He may intend on ejaculating in your mouth and not bother telling you. Communicate with your partner to let him know what you plan to do.

The more you practice, the better you will get and you will be doing it like a pro in no time. Besides, you and your partner's ultimate goals are to sexually satisfy each other on all levels. Also pay attention to your partner's reactions, while you are performing, you will not need to ask him if what you are doing is pleasurable to him. If he likes it, his body language will let you know. And don't be discouraged if your mouth is a little sore the next day or two. It will take a little bit of time for your muscles in your mouth to get acquainted with the new form of exercise. Once you get used to it, the soreness will pass as well.


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