Why are some people liked more than others? It's the likeability factor! What you may say is that? Well likeability is the ability to produce a positive attitude in others. If you are likeable, you give people a sense of well-being, happiness,and make them feel you can help them with their emotions, such as anxiety, boredom, or even depression.

Likeable people might also live longer. Studies have shown that heart disease patients who had only a small circle of friends and relatives that cared for them, were more likely to die sooner. So the more loving, caring friends and close relative you have the better. So try and make a lot of friends!

Want to be more likeable?

Here are a few ways:

Be more friendly

Likeable people are more agreeable and warm. They make other people feel comfortable and safe. People can tell if you are friendly or not. We all give off signals, or a vibe. Always try to smile. When you smile you are instantly more attractive. Your voice is also an important part in your general friendliness. Always speak calmly and not loud. Tone is oh so important in conveying attitude. If someone yells at you, speak back softly.

Make the connection Sometimes a common interest can connect you to someone. Use your sense of humor as one of your strengths. This can help you seem more likeable.

Feel their pain Showing you can feel and understand someone else's feelings can be the key. Be a good listener and always respond. When they say read between the lines, they mean the space between the words. Hear what they say, with your heart and eyes also.

Be real Don't be a phony. Whatever you do, try to be genuine. People know when you are conning them. Be honest. That is how you can get to know someone. You don't have to be an open-book, but let someone see a little of what you like, dislike, are afraid of.

All these things can raise your likeablility factor. People you work with, people at home or whereever you go, will like you and want to be your friend and help you. You will be more successful. And most importantly, your days will be happier. Nice is catching. Someone will remember your deeds and how you made them feel.

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